Being a woman means a lot of pressure from society. If you will make a single unconventional move, everyone will start judging you. The strange thing is whatever you do, bad or good; our society has always something to say about you. Sometimes society pressure makes you feel that you are not good enough. Always work on becoming a better version of yourself and not to please others or meet society’s standards. Don’t let others affect you, your life and your abilities.
Women struggle with the concepts of self-love and self-esteem throughout their life. To stop all that you need you to change some things about yourself, around your work, personal life, and self-image. So whatever you have been told needs to be transformed and create a new you.
Here are the ways you can do it-
Self-acceptance
Never compare yourself with others. Nobody is perfect in this world, everybody has some imperfections or the other. Try to embrace your flaws and imperfections that you think you have. Don’t bother about others opinions. The path of becoming a worthy woman starts with self-acceptance. Whatever you are, whoever you are, you are good enough so just accept yourself.
Again No one is perfect in this world even the most beautiful model, actor and anyone you admire. It is all in your mind and it is time to tell and create a new version of you by loving yourself.
Goals
Don’t lose sight of your goals.
With all the standards and expectations (about women) society sometimes can become more challenging. This can be frustrating and you can lose your confidence in your goals. But remember that is just a state of mind and not you. You can change this state or way of thinking anytime as you have control over your life. You decide and act on what and how you will reach your goal. Never give up on you.
Priorities
Do not neglect yourself:
Usually, women have more responsibilities for their family kids and work, etc. Due to these responsibilities, most women neglect themselves. You should take care of yourself. It’s not like you should do what society wants from you but it’s about taking care of yourself in general. Being a woman we forget to prioritize ourselves which is wrong. You should make yourself a priority. Plan what you want to do for yourself in the time that you have created for yourself. Now that you have a plan its time to schedule your plan. For example- you want to go to a day spa, book it. This way you can do it for anything you want. Once you get in a habit to do this you will start to see a really change in yourself and never let guilt make yourself a priority.
Freedom of economy
Don’t be dependent on others:
You need to question yourself and reflect on it. This should be done with mindfulness and not because it has been done for a century. Most of the women are conditioned that they should marry produce children and take care of everyone. The question is are you a superwoman? No, you are not. Then stop pretending to be one. So you have a choice marry and be dependent on someone for money and even as he cheats on you, you cannot leave because of money and children. The second choice is you marry have your economic independence and live away from his family. The other is you do not marry and have a great carrier. The time has changed we are in 2020 and if you are not updated then you need to do it now. The whole idea is that you have options and you should really sit down and think, feel and see them before you make a decision that will change your life.
Voice
Never hesitate to speak up:
As a woman, you may have grown as you have to please others and you should always say yes. Keeping these things in mind you may hesitate to speak up in your family and workspace because you are told not to speak up against others. Always remember that your voice is worth to get heard and your opinion matters. Learn to say no to things you don’t agree or you don’t like. Speak up to demand what you truly want and deserve. This voice is for every woman and we as women should start to help, talk and listen to each other and not pull down each other. Men are successful as they know that together they will win. That is why they are able to suppress women for this long. Choice and decision is ours to make collectively.
Fearless
Never afraid to seek help
We are human beings first and then we are women. Everyone us faces problems in our lives and even the strongest of all need help and guidance sometime or the other. You may feel crushed, hopeless and powerless which is ok. But do not let that define you. You can take your time to feel them but then get up and move forward. If you need help get one by getting yourself a life coach now. Be fearless like a lioness and take your space in this world.
Lead and contribute
Empower other women
It happens a lot that a woman can harm the other woman. As a woman, you should empower other women and not harm each other. Do not it for a man. If you see talented women push to reach her full potential. We need to override this jealous and envy behavior. We need to acknowledge that we have this behavior and then change it. Remember the pain is the same in everyone and there is no difference when we feel it. Make others happy and successful. The feeling you will receive by doing this action is unbelievable.
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